Selfie Time ? Wait a moment.

People sometimes, become ready to sacrifice their life saying that ” this is only one life but if it were a hundred I’d have sacrificed it”.

Now coming to the point or in other words, to know the reason of such a huge sacrifice, the answer was their happiness, yes Happiness.

Because they feel contented with that person therefore they are ready to sacrifice whatever they have to turn their luxurious life in miserable conditions, to turn their well dress looks in  rags.

Even they betray an old relationship replacing it with a newer version because they sense a clue of their own happiness in that.

Finally leaving nothing behind disconnecting with all trying to connect with only one person for own purpose may put one in a monster’s abyss. 

What if that one person walks away taking no care.

Remember you left all for that person but the other person is busy in making new relations.

Remember at the end it will be you would scream and weep while the other person will be in a more comfortable condition.

Remember it is you who has destroyed your self not the other person.
Remember in such a condition you will never ever be able to share happiness to the world
Come on!!!

 wake up be self dependent you were not born with the condition that you will be comfortable or happy with that person. 

Find your real happiness that only you can generate from inside depths of your heart. 
This is  the way how you can make yourself able to deliver happiness to others. 

Transform all who are touched by you 
” Don’t grieve what you loose comes in an other form” Rumi~

Yes, You Cannot Do It !

Something strange passed by my mind today which I will not miss to share with you buddies.

Since our childhood from every corner we have been and still we hear a famous and most spoken slogan for encouraging anyone that is “YES YOU CAN DO IT !”

It is a good thought and idea not to discourage someone but at the same time the speaker should also consider the situation and strengths of a person before saying that Yes You Can Do It.

For every Yes You Can Do It has also a Yes You Cannot Do It. In the same same way that every night has a day and every day has a night.

If you encourage a person that you can live a thousand years or say that yes you can be a President ( actually he is a shopkeeper) so no matter how many times you say these words it will never happen.

Actually those who encourage others have also unaccomplished dream too. They are not speaking the truth. 

We are often reminded aboou those person who tried a number of times and then succeeded. But we never heard about someone who tried once and passed. 

Peoole omly disclose the last attempt in which the task was completed and forget all the troubles which the other person has really been through. 

We are only shown one side of the coin which is really a dangerous thing.

Because just because of someone’s motivation and encouragement a person may go so far on the way in the hope that he will succeed and at the end output is opposite to his expectations. Then at that situation many commit suicides or become aimless even insane!.

And I guarantee that if they were told initially that your cannot do it or you should do something  else. 

He would not have been so eager for the task and might today have been doing a good job other than that for which he was compassionate.

Encouragemnt is necessary where there are means and resources with a person. 

Yes there might be some profound examples which you might think now in order to prove the idea as wrong. But again I tell you they are small in number and they do not happen now anymore. Because today’s world does not see the ability of a person rather property of a person or in more convenient way  much of the positions in this modern ear of corruption are sold. 

I personally know my friend who was studying in a collage and his best who was son of a landlord was also staying with him. 

What happent now my friend is still studying and that landlord’s son is looking after the business of his father and in one of his conversation with my friend he said 

I hire engineers to work for my projects

He was somehow given the position of building roads may be by his father’s help.

So that’s the reality don’t put all your efforts on one direction and don’t walk on a single dimension. Be also ready and prepare if you can’t succeed in your goal. 

Make choices, they will always help you.

The more choices you make the less chances of disappointment you face.

Do just whatever you do, finally you have to leave the world empty handed.

Enjoy the life stop walking on the ways that either make you success or lead you to commit suicides.

Live! Live! Live! 

Yes live the life like a liberal man. Don’t put yourself in a dark room full of troubles. 

Get what you can get by less troubles and it will have more comforts.

Deny what you can get by spending half of your life in troubles because that will not give you that much comforts as much troubles it reuiqerd to be accomplished.

Accept yourself as you are

Perform what you can

Keep yourself happy and contented 

For that’s Tue meaning of Life.

I have Handled Myself

“You’re complete when you are broken and then ready to go on”

Life plays with everyone now it was my turn to be the victim of it. Yes it disturbed me disconnectef me and you can say destroyed me but thanks dear life after passing me from all these stages you made me perfect  and a bold being to face all these troubles happily. Because sometime I thinks I have myself become a frightening fear against every danger that enters my life. Life may sound simple but it is an invisible power that rests on the peak of wisdom. It knows all the ways of dealing with every type of person be it a child, adult, or an old man. It does not favour  anyone unless it finds the opponent more powerful than itself. Yes if you are able to defeat it you win soar otherwise it may throw you in unending abyss of troubles welcoming you. 

Its offers are dangerous but tasting like honey we never notice how it makes us crazy for the things which actually does not give us real happiness or satisfaction of heart. There is no denial that those fake things make us happy psychologicaly to a certain limit. 

Life brings beautiful faces in front of us so that it can fulfill its task of making us chase them, think about them, even forgetting our own happiness we try to make them happy but at the end we see those persons leaving and ignoring us they disappear like a bird which was sitting on a branch and flew away without any hesitation, any notice, any bye bye.
But for now who has seen the bird flying away instead of making its nest on it, they don’t wait nor they busy themselves listening and enjoying the beautiful voice of bird because they have seen the scene and know the end of it. 

Now those free souls enjoy the life paying no attention to the bird. They always rest under the shade of thick tree of life. Their every moment is free and they are always in a state of ecstasy. 

All that became possible to them after crying and rolling down the tears from their eyes until there were no more in the memory of that First bird which  they were crazy for. 

Now they say thanks to that bird for making them wise and throwing them in a world of joy and esctacy. The speak with love and care and sympathy, again thanks to the bird which  poured all these feelings to those hearts which knew nothing about all these. 

After flying of the bird there appear two situations for the person either he become insane or understands the logic of the happening. 

Those who became insane they surrender themselves to the cruel life and now its upto life where it takes to them. 

While those who understand the logic that the reality is that this is a place where numerous bird have sat and will sit and fly away when they wish why should I confine my innocent soul it put it on a flame?.

They are those to whom life surrenders and they rule over the life. They know the feelings which they have experienced. They have seen the mountains of pain falling over them. 

They have walked over thorn, and making their feets injured they have passed from the way.

They have gathered the pieces of their broken hearts in a dark night and restored them carefully.

They may say;

I hate love, but who knows love more than those !

Would you like to be like CREBTAL?

Yes, dear friends if not all at least many of us want to be like someone whom they know and love the most. But why?. Here is the answer because they are special ones they are like us of course humans but they can do what we only wish.

You might like to be like Captain America, Superman, Batman or any Hollywood hero or heroine your priorities may differ but the wish or desire depicts the same picture.

Have you ever asked yourselves why you want to be like this those who actually do not exist?. What you watch is not the reality but a fiction, an entertainmentp that’s all. The hero whom you are proud of is a common person as you all his feasts you know of are fictitious he himself is on the mercy of his fans.

Then why you have become crazy?.

If you are asked Would You Like to be like Crebtal what will be your answer?. May be you remain silent and after a while you may utter ” but I don’t know who and how does he or she looks like, how can I wish to be like someone whom I don’t know from any aspect.

Exactly this is what we do what with our young generation with our innocent kids and also with ourselves.

We only order them and sometimes even beat and hurt them to be good charactered person. Just like Crebtal ( a fictitious name) the word “Good Charactered Person” is thoroughly unknown to them because they have not seen a good charactered person so how can they be like him or her. Even we, those ordering them to be like good behave devilishly to those trainers.

Wherever they go they see the people busy in their own works so how they will learn to sacrifice their precious time to someone.

Wherever they go they hear harsh words from their bosses, teachers, even parents so how they will learn speaking in a gentle and a kind manner.

Wherever they go they are afraid off being snatched so how they will learn to build a peaceful world.

Yes there are countless actions and things that only tech us to be bad and selfish.

So how can there be a Good Charactered Person if there is no one to be imitated.

Change yourselves first in Order to make some examples for the coming generations so that they may know the characteristics of a Good Person and might follow our footsteps.

A father who is a thief no matter if a thousand times he advise his son not to ba thief it will have no impact on his son.

A brother who himself has failed to clear the exams because of the girl whom he gave most oh his time, cannot really make his younger brother work hard in his studies.

Because in a dark night you cannot produce glittering light by your powerful commands to the bulb if there is no electric connection. You cannot lit it even you keep uttering from evening till next morning. Because words are not important but your actions.

Believe me your kids your and all under you can obey some of your order but remember that is not obedience nor they accept you as a role model they do it because they fear. And remember it will not last longer as soon as they become self dependents they will rule according to their wishes. Yes they can kick out their parents who brought them up because they are fed up of orders that parents, teacher and guardians used to impose on them.

And soon those young generations will do that they observed and there is no doubt that they will experience the same which they did with their elder and the circle goes on!!!

O the real Heros where are you come, come for we are lost without you. We don’t need you in our dreams thoughts and books and in stories nor we want to watch you on television come I’m our real word. Show us the real meaning of being a real hero let us know of good and bad.

Come wherever you are, come if you are in sky, come if you’re in a forest, why you show tardiness in your coming for we need you madly.